The child you love the most

Often times we ask parents; which child do you love the most?
And the most popular answer is: I love them all equally!
The child they love the most is the first one,  because that's how they learned to be parents.
The child they love the most,  is the second one that one usually will test their patience
The child they love the most is the youngest one because that's "the baby"
The child they love the most is the one they lost because they'll never see how wonderful that child would've been.
The child they love the most is the one that came to replace the one you lost because that child lit up your life back again.
The child they love the most is the brilliant one, because it makes them feel proud.
The child they love the most,  is the troubled one because that child needs it.
The child they love the most is the funny one, because that child makes them laugh when they're sad.
The child they love the most,  is the sick one, because love cures everything.
The child they love the most is the strong one, because that child fights for them.
The child they love the most,  is the weak one,  because they need to protect that child.
The child they love the most, is you
Because at some point or another you were all those things.